How weird it is to be ignored. I wonder why do people do that. How does friendship and communication work, anyway? Do we search for people with similar characters, or people with whom we can communicate without any friction? If we meet someone with whom we can get along well enough but is not the type of person we ideally want to be close with, what happens? Should we distance with each other? Or should the relationship go on? What if only one person thinks so, but the other not? Wouldn't it be plain rude to ignore someone else like that? Losing friends is never a pleasant feeling, however distant those two people may be. Without a reason, you'll be left in confusion wondering if you did something wrong. There's not enough courage to prompt you to ask the other person outrightly about the reason either. That would only seem to end the relationship even more. I wonder?
When you get sucked into the stream of popular beliefs, there's no coming back. Peer pressure has gotten ahold of you and you're growing to like it, admit it or not. Maybe it's not such a bad thing to accept it as it is and navigate the least painful way around it.

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